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Is it love or just infatuation

Is it love or infatuation

November 29, 2019

"This is what I’ve always liked about New York. These little moments on the sidewalk, smoking, thinking about your life. Makes you appreciate the city better. You can watch the buildings. You can feel the air and look at the people, sometimes meet somebody you feel like you can talk to".

This quote from the film 'New York, I Love You' perfectly encapsulates my feelings about the city. Living in New York is a challenge, with its constant noise, crowds, and high cost of living. Yet, it is also incredibly inspiring and addictive. The city’s unique blend of cultures, the convergence of creativity and talent, and the convenience of finding whatever you need at any time all contribute to its allure. It’s about the opportunities, the culture, and the people. I ache for New York.

Is it love or infatuation? Does distance truly make the heart grow fonder? Each return to New York feels like falling deeper, as if I'm finally finding where I belong.

Like any relationship, only time will tell. It will require persistence, trust, an open heart, a willingness to embrace the city's flaws and virtues, and a lasting sense of optimism to turn this into a lifelong affair.